1: Spiritual Love Bombing: How Chad Daybell’s Religious Manipulation Works | Cult Psychology
How do you recognize spiritual abuse before it’s too late?
It starts with feeling chosen. Someone tells you that you’re special — that they can see your divine purpose, that you were set apart before birth, that the rules don’t apply to someone at your level.
That’s how it started for Lori Vallow. A religious conference. A man named Chad Daybell. A claim that they’d been married in a past life.
Within a year, her husband was dead. Within fourteen months, her children were buried in Chad Daybell’s backyard.
This is Part 1 of “The Chosen Ones” — a 5-part psychological deep dive into spiritual abuse, religious trauma, and high control religion through the lens of the Vallow-Daybell case.
This episode examines: → How spiritual love bombing creates dependency → Why seekers and the devout are most vulnerable to religious manipulation → The fringe LDS conference circuit where Chad Daybell built his following → How “you’re special” becomes “the rules don’t apply to you” → Warning signs of coercive control in religious settings
If you’re experiencing a faith crisis, questioning a toxic church, or in the middle of deconstruction — you’ll recognize these patterns. The tactics are the same across high control religions. Only the vocabulary changes.
The first step in spiritual manipulation is making you feel chosen. The second step is making you feel exempt. Understanding these mechanics is the first step toward healing from religious trauma.
CHAPTERS: 0:00 – The Conference Room [Additional chapters TBD]
RESOURCES FOR SURVIVORS:
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Religious Trauma Institute - Recovering from Religion
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Tears of Eden (spiritual abuse support)
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